I'm loving looking up info on Mother Teresa this week. She was simple, passionate and full of truth. Here's some special encouragement for us as mothers today. Friend and Sister, no one can take your place. God has chosen you for this most amazing life-task of mothering.
An Excerpt from Mother Teresa's message to the Fourth UN Women's Conference
God has created each one of us, every human being, for greater things-- to love and to be loved. But why did God make some of us men and others women? Because a woman's love is one image of the love of God, and a man's love is another image of God's love. Both are created to love, but each in a different way. Woman and man complete each other, and together show forth God's love more fully than either can do it alone.That special power of loving that belongs to a woman is seen most clearly when she becomes a mother. Motherhood is the gift of God to women. How grateful we must be to God for this wonderful gift that brings such joy to the whole world, women and men alike! Yet we can destroy this gift of motherhood, especially by the evil of abortion, but also be thinking that other things like jobs or positions are more important than loving, than giving oneself to others. No job, no plans, no possessions, no idea of "freedom" can take the place of love. So anything that destroys God's gift of motherhood destroys His most precious gift to women-- the ability to love as a woman.
Instead of death and sorrow, let us bring peace and joy to the world. To do this we must beg God for His gift of peace and learn to love and accept each other as brothers and sisters, children of God. We know that the best place for children to learn how to love and to pray is in the family, by seeing the love and prayer of their mother and father. When families are broken or disunited, many children grow up not knowing how to love and pray. A country where many families have been destroyed like this will have many problems. I have often seen, especially in the rich countries, how children turn to drugs or other things to escape feeling unloved and rejected.
But when families are strong and united, children can see God's special love in the love of their father and mother and can grow to make their country a loving and prayerful place. The child is God's best gift to the family and needs both mother and father because each one shows God's love in a special way. The family that prays together stays together, and if they stay together they will love one another as God has loved each one of them. And works of love are always works of peace.
And then from her talk to the National Prayer Breakfast which was an incredibly couragous talk on the horrors of abortion. (In her talk she spoke against abortion and said in front of the Clintons, "Please don't kill the child. I want the child. Please give me the child.) I want to have a couragous love like her! This next quote was simple but true. How bizarre the plight of rich purposeless teens must look to the outside world.
"I was surprised in the West to see so many young boys and girls given to drugs. And I tried to find out why. Why is it like that, when those in the West have so many more things than those in the East? And the answer was: 'Because there is no one in the family to receive them.' Our children depend on us for everything - their health, their nutrition, their security, their coming to know and love God. For all of this, they look to us with trust, hope and expectation. But often father and mother are so busy they have no time for their children, or perhaps they are not even married or have given up on their marriage. So their children go to the streets and get involved in drugs or other things. We are talking of love of the child, which is were love and peace must begin. These are the things that break peace."
We have in our charge God's precious, dear daughters and son. We all can take a deep breath. Our kids don't need a perfect cupcake decorating Martha Stewart mother. They don't need a cruise-ship, fun-ship nostalgic childhood, but a mother and father listening to and in love with Jesus, loving them passionately and fierce for their minds and hearts.
